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There is so much one can do. So much one can say. So much that one can conduct, to make someone's day. I want to go out into the streets. To reach the homeless and poor. To show them that there is a light. There is hope. And there is a gem hidden amongst the coals of life. I want to help the hurt, broken and lonely. To reach the forgotten and withdrawn, the abused and mistrusted and help them to discover and turn a new page! I do however have my own set of problems. I am not perfect. I am a cutter. I am an addict. I hurt people often. I trust to easily, and I also have trust issues - a lot of it being myself. I have a struggling relationship with God, but I am learning to trust Him, and look for Him, even when I can't see or feel Him. He will always be my light! No matter what hell I think I am going through. <3 Kara (19) (Australia) COPYRIGHT ISSUES... (Unless stated, and even then not always done, the photos and pictures are not my own... I usually save the photos that I really like to be used as a screensaver and then post them into the queue at a later date, to share with you also... I have posted a few posts about this previously, saying that unless specifically mentioned, these are not my own photos. If you want to create an argument and want the public recognition, watermark your photos with your tumblr url. DeviantART: http://kargie.deviantart.com If you wanna talk - Formspring
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Daddy’s Girl (an E-mail forward)

Her hair was up in a pony tail
her favorite dress tied with a bow.

Today was Daddy’s Day at school,
and she couldn’t wait to go.

But her mommy tried to tell her,
that she probably should stay home.
Why the kids might not understand,
if she went to school alone.

But she was not afraid;
she knew just what to say.
What to tell her classmates
of why he wasn’t there today.

But still her mother worried,
for her to face this day alone.
And that was why once again,
she tried to keep her daughter home.

But the little girl went to school
eager to tell them all.
About a dad she never sees
a dad who never calls.

There were daddies along the wall in back,
for everyone to meet.
Children squirming impatiently,
anxious in their seats

One by one the teacher called
a student from the class.
To introduce their daddy,
as seconds slowly passed.

At last the teacher called her name,
every child turned to stare.
Each of them was searching,
a man who wasn¹t there



Where’s her daddy at?”
She heard a boy call out.
She probably doesn’t have one,”
another student dared to shout.

And from somewhere near the back,
she heard a daddy say,
“Looks like another deadbeat dad,
too busy to waste his day.”

The words did not offend her,
>as she smiled up at her Mom.
And looked back at her teacher,

who told her to go on.
And with hands behind her back,
slowly she began to speak.
And out from the mouth of a child,
came words incredibly unique.

“My Daddy couldn’t be here,
 because he lives so far away.
 But I know he wishes he could be,
 since this is such a special day.

 And though you cannot meet him,
 I wanted you to know.
 All about my daddy,
 and how much he loves me so.

He loved to tell me stories
he taught me to ride my bike.
He surprised me with pink roses,
and taught me to fly a kite.

We used to share fudge sundaes,
 and ice cream in a cone.
And though you cannot see him.
I’m not standing here alone.

“Cause my daddy’s always with me,
even though we are apart
I know because he told me,
he’ll forever be in my heart”

With that, her little hand reached up,
and lay across her chest.
Feeling her own heartbeat,
beneath her favourite dress

And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads,
her mother stood in tears.
Proudly watching her daughter,
Who was wise beyond her years.

For she stood up for the love
of a man not in her life.
Doing what was best for her,
doing what was right.

And when she dropped her hand back down,
Staring straight into the crowd.
She finished with a voice so soft,
but its message clear and loud.

I love my daddy very much,
he’s my shining star.

nd if he could, he’d be here,
>but heaven’s just too far

You see he was a policeman
and died just this past year
hen airplanes hit the towers
and taught Americans to fear.

But sometimes when I close my eyes,
it’s like he never went away.”
And then she closed her eyes,
and saw him there that day.


And to her mothers amazement,
he witnessed with surprise.
A room full of daddies and children,
all starting to close their eyes.



Who knows what they saw before them,
who knows what they felt inside.
Perhaps for merely a second,
hey saw him at her side.

“I know you’re with me Daddy,”
to the silence she called out.
And what happened next made believers,
of those once filled with doubt.

Not one in that room could explain it,
for each of their eyes had been closed.
But there on the desk beside her,
was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose.
And a child was blessed, if only for a moment,
by the love of her shining star.
And given the gift of believing,
that heaven is never too far.

hey say it takes a minute to find a special person,

an hour to appreciate them,

a day to love them,

but then an entire life to forget them.

OPERATION BEAUTIFUL

(http://operationbeautiful.com/)

A random note on the website:
Ibelis said, “Beauty comes in all colors. I think as women we get caught up with how we are “supposed” to look like. I am Puerto Rican and I’ve felt in the past that I could be more curvy, have longer hair, be darker, a perfect looking Puerto Rican.  Operation Beautiful help me stay positive everyday! Woman – be happy with how you are because you are GORGEOUS just how you are. Forget about getting contacts to have lighter eyes, surgery for implants….be natural, be beautiful!!!”

One night I am really thankful I did take Uni off for…. I had an assignment due the next day. But these guys are the reason that friends are fun :)

Straight Talk Australia ~ 101 Things to do with your boyfriend or girlfriend instead of it!

 

1.       Go for a bike ride.

2.       Go to a school footy game

3.       Do a jigsaw puzzle

4.       Go to a theme park

5.       Go fruit picking

6.       Go horse back riding

7.       Go roller blading

8.       Do a crossword

9.       Have a picnic

10.   Make birthday cards

11.   Cook dinner for the family

12.   Go to a free concert

13.   Volunteer your time to a worthy organisation

14.   Take your grandparents out for a dinner at a fast food restaurant

15.   Take a walk on the beach

16.   Take the dog for a walk

17.   Have a scavenger hunt

18.   Watch your favourite Disney movie

19.   Do homework together

20.   Play beach volleyball

21.   Make a candelight dinner

22.   Paint your room

23.   Visit yoru local nursing home

24.   Read Jason Steven’s book “Worth the Wait”

25.   Go fishing

26.   Play on the swings at the park

27.   Eat something new

28.   Do karaoke

29.   Tie-dye T-shirts

30.   Play in the leaves

31.   Pretend you’re six again

32.   Watch a black and white movie

33.   Have a water fight

34.   Wash dad’s car

35.   Paint a picture

36.   Visit sick people in hospital

37.   Have a pizza party

38.   Colour in a colouring book

39.   Read the Sunday comics

40.   Have a burping contest

41.   Play charades

42.   Prune a tree

43.   Learn yo-yo tricks

44.   Learn a new language

45.   Visit the rspca

46.   Take a boat ride

47.   Play xbox360

48.   Visit kids in a hospital ward

49.   Go to the zoo

50.   Talk

51.   Play mini golf

52.   Fix lunch for some elderly folk

53.   Read 1 Corinthians 13 (the love chapter in the Bible)

54.   Go ten pin bowling

55.   Go to macca’s in formal clothes

56.   Watch an old flick

57.   Work out at the Gym

58.   Get your photos taken at a photo booth

59.   Invent a new game

60.   Take a kick boxing class

61.   Share a drink with two straws

62.   Feed each other sushi

63.   Arm wrestle

64.   Go on a group date

65.   Learn how to juggle

66.   Take ballroom dancing lessons

67.   Go grocery shopping for your parents

68.   Play soccer with the family

69.   Make a present for your mother

70.   Surprise your parents by cleaning the house

71.   Play monopoly

72.   Assemble something without instructions

73.   Read childrens’ books

74.   Go orienteering

75.   Play ball without the ball

76.   Go to a museum

77.   Play army

78.   Look at the clouds and see what you can make them into

79.   Budget a $5 dinner

80.   Pick a dandelion bouquet for your mothers

81.   Check out www.truelovewaits.com.au

82.   Play “I Spy”

83.   Jog around the neighbourhood

84.   Go shopping together

85.   Baby-sit younger children for parents

86.   Bake muffins and then eat them

87.   Do a finger painting

88.   Make up a song and sing it to each other

89.   Write a poem for each other

90.   Make popcorn

91.   Build sandcastles or a snowman

92.   Plant some flowers

93.   Get involved at school or church

94.   Make a gift for a friend

95.   Watch the DVD “The Price Tag of Sex” together

96.   Blow bubbles in the park

97.   Mow the lawn for the family

98.   Door knock for Red Cross, or Red Shield

99.   Go bushwalking with friends.

100.                        Go for a historical walk in your town

101.                        Go to a day care centre/pre-school and volunteer your time.

Croatian coma girl wakes up speaking German

14:30 AEST Wed Apr 14 20107 hours 17 minutes ago

By ninemsn staff

A Croatian girl has woken from a coma unable to speak her native language — instead talking in fluent German. The 13-year-old girl, who lost consciousness for 24 hours two weeks ago, has doctors baffled by her bizarre condition. She had been studying German at school and watching German television shows, but her parents maintain she was previously unable to freely communicate in the language. “You never know when recovering from such a trauma how the brain will react,” the UK Telegraph quoted KB Hospital director Dujomir Marasovic as saying. “Obviously we have some theories although at the moment we are limited in what we can say because we have to respect the privacy of the patient.” Various experts have examined the teenager, from the southern Croatian town of Knin, but all have failed to make a diagnosis. She was initially admitted to hospital for blood poisoning, Croatian media reports. Tests are continuing.

kevinkhewitt:

acabatay:

(via bitchville)
There is something really pretty and admiring about this tattoo&#8230;
I could never pull it off and wear it&#8230; but I have strong ambitions to find a black jumper with the human anatomy expressed. :)

There is something really pretty and admiring about this tattoo…

I could never pull it off and wear it… but I have strong ambitions to find a black jumper with the human anatomy expressed. :)

GROWING HOPE!!!
Even after a fire, after a flood, after a cyclone&#8230; there is still always hope trying to grow&#8230;THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE! You just have to look for it to find it.

(Drew this yesterday within 2 hours, on and off&#8230; first time I&#8217;ve ever been able to do that and have it turn out at a satisfiable standard :) )

GROWING HOPE!!!

Even after a fire, after a flood, after a cyclone… there is still always hope trying to grow…

THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE!

You just have to look for it to find it.

(Drew this yesterday within 2 hours, on and off… first time I’ve ever been able to do that and have it turn out at a satisfiable standard :) )

Girl, Interrupted

dionysusflavour:

“Suicide is a form of murder - premeditated murder. It isn’t something you do the first time you think of doing it. It takes getting used to. And you need the means, the opportunity, the motive. A successful suicide demands good organization and a cool head, both of which are usually incompatible with the suicidal state of mind”  - Susanna Kaysen 

[This girl makes me smile] and laugh :)

[This girl makes me smile] and laugh :)

The Lie of Beauty

A blog that I found through a friend’s facebook - a very relevant post in today’s society! (http://justathoughtdevotionals.com/2012/01/21/the-lie-of-beauty/)

Judges 14:1, 3, ”Then Samson went down to Timnah and saw a woman in Timnah, one of the daughters of the Philistines… But Samson said to his father, ‘Get her for me, for she looks good to me.’

I’m glad I’m not a woman. Now please, hear me out before you start firing off those angry emails. I honestly don’t mean that in a sexist or misogynist way. If anything, I am trying to sympathize, trying to show some empathy. I’m not saying I am an expert on women. (No rational man would dare make such a statement ;) ) But I have been married, happily married I might add, to a woman for over 20 years. In addition, I am also the proud father of two teenage girls. So, in my opinion, I do have a little experience in the field in question. Okay. I think that I’ve dug the hole deep enough now. Maybe I should just get on to my point for today. Yeah, might be a good idea…

I don’t envy today’s women because of the unceasing, blatant media push to define beauty. Liposuction. Heavy makeup. Plastic surgery. Enhancements. Tummy tucks. Body sculpting. Rigorous diets. Washboard abs. Airbrushed photographs. Clothes? Perfect. Hair? Perfect. Body shape? Perfect. Everywhere you look. On every channel. On the cover of every magazine. Women are bombarded with a constant stream of the world’s definition of beauty. It’s truly unbelievable to me (not to mention entirely unrealistic). The Barbie dolls that my girls played with in their younger years have seemingly come to life before our very eyes. I mean, seriously? Am I the only one who looks at some of today’s top models and most popular celebrities and thinks, “Somebody buy that girl a sandwich!”

I find in interesting that in the first 7 verses of Judges 14 we discover a definite emphasis on Samson’s basis for marriage. 4 times the text refers to Samson seeing a woman and communicating to his parents that, “she looked good.” The thing that makes it even more telling is that the same passage only mentions that he actually spoke with her once. But hey, I’m not telling you ladies anything you don’t already know to be true. Many men are driven by visual stimuli. A woman’s appearance has incredible impact upon a man. And that is what makes our current culture’s misguided conception of beauty so damaging.

First of all, ladies, you need to be aware that there will always be some men like Samson. Samson couldn’t care less that the woman was a Philistine, i.e. an enemy of the people of God. Her faith meant nothing to him. Their religious differences? He didn’t give them a second thought. He saw her. She looked good to him. End of discussion. For some men godly character means nothing. For that type of man breasts will always trump brains. Sadly, for such men it’s all about an appearance, one that ultimately is deceptive and fleeting. Ladies, if I could give you one word of counsel, it would be this… STOP WASTING YOUR TIME TRYING TO IMPRESS THAT TYPE OF GUY!!! I’m not saying it will be easy. But honestly? You deserve better. If his sole attraction to you is based on your appearance, the “love” that he professes will eventually be turned toward another.

Secondly, I want to tell any and every woman reading this today that you are beautiful. God created you. God lovingly designed you. You are His treasure. You are His unique masterpiece. And last time I checked, the Bible declares that all that He does is good. Stop measuring yourself with the broken standards that come from a lost and dying world. Stop believing the lies that Hollywood and Madison Avenue keep trying to stuff down your throats. Real beauty doesn’t come from a bottle. Real beauty isn’t applied with a brush. Want to see God’s idea of beautiful? Go look in the mirror. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!

Finally, I would like say to the men who are reading this note today, raise your standards and stop selling yourself short. Samson’s marriage to the that hot Philistine chick? Didn’t last. In fact, it turned out real bad for Samson. In time she ended up with one of Samson’s friends. (Hey, I’m not making this up. True story. Look at the rest of the chapter if you don’t believe.) Beauty can be a lie. It has a way of blinding you to a woman’s true nature and character. Samson saw only the woman’s looks and chose to overlook the real issues in her life. She was not a woman of faith. She was not a woman of character. By the end of the story Samson found himself angry and alone because he had bought the lie of beauty.

True beauty is something far different from what People magazine celebrates in its annual “50 Most Beautiful People” issue. True beauty comes from awareness. It’s a recognition that you are a daughter of God, that you were made in His image. Beauty is kindness. Beauty is grace. Beauty is purity. Beauty is godly character. Ladies, that’s the only standard you should seek to satisfy. And men? That’s the only woman you should really ever chase.