Appearances… (and Acceptance?)
I was going through some books I wrote in awhile ago, and came across a book I took to Cambodia on a Teen Missions’ Trip (www.teenmissions.com.au) in 2006/2007 (so 3 years ago). I then started flicking through this book and came across one section of notes that I had prepared for leading at night devotions…
I still find it funny reading back on these things, because I often go “I wish I had the faith now, as I did then” but it’s in the past and you can only really look towards the future! And I surprisingly struggle with this a lot more now than I did then… but I thought I might share it with you…
Why do we care so much on appearances? Who says what the best appearance is, or isn’t?
God chose our specific body parts that would be perfect for us. Like the people, who have dug and filled the trenches and posts, look for that perfect flat rock for the trench, or the suitable small wedge rock for the post hole, to securely support the post.
As in Psalms 139:13 - 16 (one of my favourite verses)
(NLT) “13 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. 14 Thankyou for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous and how well I know it. 15 You watched me as I was being in the utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. 16 You saw me before I was born. Everyday of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.”
Again, and I need to apply this to myself, as well; why do we, especially females, care so much on what our appearances are like? Why do so many women wear foundation and makeup, etc. on our faces each day, hiding the natural beauty God individually gave us?
I have a friend, who works at my school, and if she’s running late, she says to me when I say hello to her in the morning, “that she’s sorry she hasn’t got her mask on yet.” But who says we need a mask?
God created us uniquely and specifically for who we are; He doesn’t care if we got pimples, a physical or speech problem (like Moses). He doesn’t care if we have different coloured skin, from the majority of people that reside in our community. For He created us to be set apart from others.
He uses people who are different, to the full. He has a plan for everyone, and the ones who aren’t seen as the “perfect” person are usually His most useful. It is because these people haven’t closed themselves so much, that He can mould them and make them. He can transform them into His image and help them to reach out to others, as they are happy with who they are, and are focused on Him (God) and not on their own selves.
There is no one person exactly alike, not even twins or clones. For each person looks internally and externally different, acts differently, and has their own unique personality.
So lets all try just to be who we are, and accept who we are, what we look like, and how God created us uniquely, for a reason! Maybe this will save some time for others in the bathroom, in the mornings as well.
So I just want to overall say, well sum up my devotions, by saying… Don’t worry what your appearance is and let’s get DIRTY for God!
Proverbs 31:31
I Peter 3:3-4
I Samuel 16:7
